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June 4, 2008 at 1:47 pm Leave a comment

There will be NO Chicken Dance- Guest Blog

by Elizabeth Tobias

There Will Be No Chicken Dance!

In December, Jeremy asked for my hand in marriage. We are on cloud nine, but planning a wedding and preparing for our future can be stressful! (Big shocker, right?)

And so begins the questions:

Have you set a date? What dress did you get? How are you going to do your hair? What kind of music? What’s the color scheme? What kind of food are you serving? Are we invited? Where are you going for your honeymoon? Who are your bridesmaids?

Everyone is happy for us and they are just curious, but those questions were coming at a rate I wasn’t ready for. The other problem, most of my answers are not what they expected. Then I have to explain (or feel like I have to explain) that I don’t want a traditional wedding, I’m having a very private ceremony, and a brunch reception a week later.

I’ve seen many brides get stressed out with their wedding, and end up wishing they had eloped. I want the next year to be as enjoyable and stress-free as possible. I didn’t want to be a bridezilla. No garter toss, no cake, no DJ, no expensive napkins, no wedding consultant. In my attempt to not be a bridezilla, I became an anti-bridezilla-zilla.

I keep reminding myself that it’s okay to let go of the reigns. And the best part? I’ll be married to the man I was always destined to.

June 4, 2008 at 9:25 am 7 comments


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