The Bliss of a Wedding- Not for me Ritchey/ Murphy

April 26, 2014 at 4:12 pm 11 comments

I am not sure what I am supposed to be feeling – Today at noon there was a wedding – all the hoopla and happiness that goes with it ……. The wedding of Angela Marie Lombardi Ritchey( Murphy)
to another Chris , Christopher Murphy.
dr dirty  dancing

Sue Lombardi Lorain
Mother Sue Lombardi , she of the

lets dress him in his blue shirt and silver tie in the coffin,

and wanting so much to have his coffin at the funeral home to decorate,

is in her element I am sure decorating and dressing having hair and make up done and the whitening of the teeth……


In the normal way of things – had that family not caused so much pain , distress and ugliness as my son died – I would have wished the “daughter in law” well. But that wasn’t to be – Instead I wonder as she walks down the aisle at St. Johns -making further promises – whether she will remember a young man with a winning smile and a naivety as to what that family would do to his … ………. so I wish them “conscience” ………………………

Yes I am angry and bitter- they took our son , caused so much pain to his family by doing so – and there his remains – remain…. it was a despicable callous and
cruel act in the worst time any parent or sister could have .. by those that once again get on their knees and make promises in a well decorated church celebrating “love”—- they know not the meaning of the word.

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11 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Henery Hawk  |  April 26, 2014 at 7:14 pm

    Thoughts are with you and Ritchey. Wonder if this is step 2 in becoming the Black Widow…..

  • 2. Loraine Ritchey  |  April 26, 2014 at 7:22 pm

    Oh Sue finally got her Dr. Chris … the money, and the wedding of her choice…… as I said scum and top of the pond…….

  • 3. Lisa  |  April 27, 2014 at 2:15 am

    Then put your big girl panties on and go over and talk to Sue, mother to mother. Ask her how she would feel if the situation were reversed and your family had done what they damn well pleased with Angela’s remains. Maybe, just maybe, you can get through to her and get her to understand that they got everything they wanted from Chris’ death and all you want are his remains. You won’t know unless you try and if you don’t think you’re up to fighting for your son one last time [or she won’t listen] then call your lawyer and have him do it. They have 2 choices – Angela can agree to the disinterment and sign the paperwork and Chris can finally come home -or- you will see them in court when you pursue a court ordered disinterment. Either way, you are the only one who can do something to change this situation. You might be surprised – the new husband could end up being your biggest ally in all of this.

  • 4. Loraine Ritchey  |  April 27, 2014 at 10:42 am

    I doubt it very much – you have no idea about these people – having shared their ” mind set for weeks ” her new husband did not just come into the picture and the blog is read . I told them on Sept 3rd 2011 what we needed to finish this relationship….. they and the newbie have had three years….. It is what it is and if you think I am putting myself in harms way by contacting them directly ( no it will be lawyers…….. they would be the first to tell me not to contact them directly….

    and for the record especially to
    hetylermccormick@>>>>>>>>>> who contacted this blog about Dr. Ritchey’s grief well witnessed it first hand too ( or the lack of it ) it is all about show. and should you wish your comment posted the rule of the blog is you use your own name…….. not ANON

  • 5. Jeannie V  |  April 28, 2014 at 12:37 pm

    You can bet Tim and Sue Lombardi didn’t put their hands in their pockets for this one either and no expense spared does not equal class

  • […] And the next Mother’s Day was one of pain and cruelty unasked for “notes” from his bride had arrived – Angela Marie (Lombardi Ritchey) Murphy) […]

  • 8. maryspringowski  |  July 4, 2014 at 6:39 am

  • 9. X  |  August 8, 2014 at 8:35 pm

    Have a feeling she and her family were money hungry…She might become a black widow and get him…..Going to LC with the both of them, your blog has explained a lot of things that went on behind closed doors. I believe karma will get her. I miss Chris always friendly and kind.

  • 10. thatwoman  |  August 8, 2014 at 9:08 pm

    All I know is that what they did to this family after Chris passed was disgraceful- totally inappropriate – and the cruelest of thinking. no matter whose religion you follow- I know that Angela had planned to have 4 children with “my ” Chris” – I am sure she and the “do over Chris” will have a family – I wonder when she finally has a child of her own whether she will finally realize how cruel she was to the people that loved my son more than she ever did.

    As for Sue Lombardi well she is in my opinion the epitome of selfishness, cold and calculating. As for the rest of them they are like little robotic figures doing the bidding of Mama Sue. I saw the photos of the ” do over wedding” I shook my head it really spoke volumes –

    The do over wedding- let us get this right this time Angela- I can hear them now – they fuss about her like she is the sun to their planets , sickening really I watched in the waiting room and actually felt sorry for her sister – — laughable — and totally over the top…. class does not always equate money spent…… and I agree with Jeannie I bet Tim and Sue didn’t fork out for that one … We will see what transpires…….. All I want is for my sons’ earthly remains to be taken from their evil family plot……. I will even pay for it….. and then they can literally all go to hell…… Loraine

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